For each person, there would be
a moment really important to he or her. There were many significant moments for
me and I sometimes forgot some of them. However, I can remember what happened
when I first went to a boarding school. Homesick was so normal for everybody
that went to a new school and I was also a member of that. However as a result,
this experience helped me to be independent and helped me to find my best
friend forever.
I opened my eyes, and it was
already six o’clock. Where was I? I was still not getting used to where I lived
that time. I started going to junior high school that time. That was the first
time I went to a boarding school. After a month of school days and a seven days
break, I started to have home sick.
It was just a normal day after
the break. Octobers in Shanghai was always warm and peaceful. I would like the
peaceful scene in normal time, but for the time that I had home sick, it just
brought me irritation and anger. The leaves weren’t falling and seemed to be a
little bit yellow; some small birds were on the branches. The soft winds blew
to my face quietly. But none of these beautiful things can make me happy.
I started to complain in my
mind. I did blame my parents who went to other cities because of work, I did
blame my grandparents who left me and went to look after my little cousin, and
I even blame my little cousin who took the love of my grandparents and make me
to stay in a boarding school with home sick. It was a beautiful morning, but my
mind cannot be as beautiful as that.
I stayed in the school’s dining
hall by myself and I didn’t want anyone to stay with me. “Having no friends is
better in this condition”, I thought. However, someone came to me without
invitation. “What are you doing here? Eating breakfast by your own in a
beautiful morning is really a waste of time!” she said. I was a little bit shy
and I didn’t know what to say that time. Then, I just stayed and listened to
her.
She tried a lot to talk with
me. “Why you just don’t talk?” she was confused, “I think the best thing in the
world is to talk with your friend!” She smiled like the sunshine in the sky. I
looked in her eyes and saw the color that had been reflected by the light of
the sun. I asked, “Are we friend? We even don’t have any conversation.” She
answered happily, “Of course we are! And we can start the conversation now! Let’s
see, um… what’s your favorite activity?” She spoke a lot and she’s really an
outspoken girl. I knew more information about her later. She came to me and
“forced” me to do things that I seemed don’t want to do. She knew I yearned for
doing that. As a result, I found the air changed, everything became better.
Since the relationships between
people are so magical, we soon became good friends. Later, my friend also
helped me to join in the new place and I started to change to do something I seemed
didn’t want to before. She made me felt better and told me what she felt when
she got homesick at the first year of boarding school. As a result, I get into
the new condition that I lived. Lastly, I want to say it’s difficult to live by
yourself in a new place, and it’s really great to be a independent person, but
if people have a friend, that’s even better.
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